Small changes for better sex life

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You must have heard or tried a plethora of 'out of the box' methods to boost your sex life. For instance, you might have bought the most provocative piece of lingerie or the most bizarre sex toy you could find online. Maybe you have tried your best to follow the quirkiest positions suggested by friends or otherwise. Yet you are not being able to end the sex drought or revive a flagging drive. Well, sometimes we tend to forget that seemingly unimportant things we do can usher in big changes in our lives and this holds true for intimacy as well. After all, studies say that sex releases feel-good hormones as well as 'cuddle hormones' that can bolster emotional bonding. So here are some little things you can do to jumpstart your sex life:

Find some extra time together
It might sound like stating the obvious, but think about it - how often do you take time out of your hectic lives to just enjoy being with each other? If you sync your leisure time with your partner's, you will have a better chance of finding sex enjoyable, not just a chore.

Words matter
A stimulating conversation is fine, but complimenting your partner can reignite passion as well. Not just men, women too need to remind their partners how special they are.

A fresh look
Thanks to everyday wear and tear in relationships, experts say couples can lose focus with regard to what drew them close to each other in the first place. Rediscover the qualities that you admire the most in your partner. For instance, you may have always loved how your beau speaks at gatherings and commands attention - start appreciating this gift afresh.

Common interests
A recent study by a portal has shown that books on the bedside can be a turn-on. The study shows that if men have solid reading habits, they can be more sexually alluring. You can perhaps find such common interests that can strengthen intimacy.

Stop overanalysing
Maybe you are trying too hard to improve your sex life. Maybe it's time you stop overanalysing what ails your sex life and just do it!