Do you always wait for your man to make the first move when it comes to sex? Well, ditch the coy, virginal act right now because you are probably doing more harm than good to your relationship by being so passive. He will be pleasantly surprised if you take charge in the bedroom and take him on a wild ride. Here are the reasons why you should set the sexual ball rolling.
It shows that you desire him
When you initiate sex, your partner is reassured that you still find him hot enough to get all down and dirty with him. Men also suffer from insecurity issues and feelings of inadequacy about their sexual prowess. Having to woo you for sex all the time can lead him to believe that you are not interested in him and this can lead to a lot of discord in the relationship. A man who feels secure and loved in the relationship will be super-loving with you too.
He is not always clued in to your moods
Your partner does not have a magic wand that lets him gauge your sexual interest. Even if you are all raring to go, he might genuinely not be able to pick up your sexual signals. So put both of you out of your misery by making the first move to drag him to bed.
It gets your libido back on track
Is your libido on the wane? Your disinterest could stem from the sexual drought that you have been putting yourself through. Push yourself to initiate sex with him. It’s all worth it because sex is not just great for your relationship, it’s terrific for your health too. Remember the more sex you have, the more you will want it! Scientists have said that your testosterone levels will drop if you stop having sex, however, having sex just once a week can get it back to normal levels.
It helps you enjoy sex more
By initiating sex, you effectively take charge of the sexual encounter and can steer it to your liking. Have sex the way you want to. Give in to your wildest fantasies and vary the pace according to what you want. You could also focus on giving him pleasure and let him enjoy being dominated and desired.
It satisfies his need
It is important for men to have sex to feel connected to you and retain the intimacy in the relationship. However, he might not be up to pursuing you to have sex every day so make things exciting for him by taking the lead and having a satisfying sexual encounter that will make you bond in the most intimate way possible.
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